What a guy needs to do is to simply relax, maintain his belief in his attractiveness to her and let the relationship unfold naturally. A guy like this might then relax and assume that hanging out together, watching TV, going out to eat once in a while and kissing and having sex is enough for her to want to stay with him for life.
If you want your relationship with your woman to grow and flourish over time, you have to be the one leading both her, and yourself, to deeper levels of respect, attraction and love. Look at it this way: When you plant a seed, you have to then continue watering and nurturing it for the rest of your life, if you want it to grow into a big, strong healthy plant. The initial feelings of attraction are not enough to last for a lifetime, unless you can nurture them into something bigger and more meaningful.
If a woman is a little preoccupied and distracted in her relationship e. What do I need to do make things go back to the way they were at the beginning? What is he hiding from? Is he needy for me because he knows how difficult it would be to find another woman?
What kind of man do I have here? Is he needy for me because he lacks purpose in life? Is he afraid of spending time rising through the levels of life to reach for his true potential as a man? Do I have a failure of a man here? Am I going to be safe staying with him in the long run? If she senses that he is using her and the relationship as an excuse to hide from his true potential as a man in life, she will naturally distance herself from him even more.
This would be more likely if she initially was showing a lot of interest in you but she started to show less interest in you over time. If she is not interested in you then she might also show signs of disinterest when she is around you such as:. If this is the case then it would be likely that you would have shown some interest in her but not a lot and she would likely act differently with you compared to when she is with her other friends.
If she is interested in you then she would still likely show some signs of attraction when she is around you such as:. There are many more signs of attraction that a girl might show and I mention many more of them in this blog post. If this was the case then it would be likely that she would have been showing the same body language around you that she normally does.
She would also likely have been interacting with you in a similar way to how she was interacting with other people. If this is the case then it would be likely that you would only have spoken to her a few times and that you would not have hung out together in the past.
If she was then it would be likely that she would have acted distant after something happened that would make her feel sad and that she would have acted in a similar way around other people. People often distance themselves from others when they feel something is wrong or missing in the relationship. Effective interpersonal communication is all about finding out what the message means. While Gray says women usually are comfortable communicating their feelings, women sometimes will sense the risks of being candid are too great, and decide that silence is the best defense.
I need time to sort this out before I can talk about it. Herb Goldberg, professor emeritus in psychology at California State University Los Angeles, many women will place emotional and even physical distance between themselves and someone because they feel a need to check and double-check their feelings first.
It could be something temporary that leads eventually to a positive resolution. Women are capable of hitting real roadblocks when it comes to venting deep anger, according to author John Gray. She may not want to be tempted to vent the anger by continuing communication. She wants to know how you are going to react when she stops acting so warm and kind to you. A lot of girls like to be very guarded especially when it comes to feelings and emotions.
She only needs some time to recover from her old wounds. You can consider this a blessing in disguise because it can get very difficult to date a girl with intense emotional baggage. The friend zone is a terrible place that no one ever wants to get caught in.
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